Monday, May 17, 2021

Another trip south

Oleg accepted a job with a company on the other coast, and so we packed up his apartment, hired a big truck, and took a road trip to move him south. He drove his car, Tom drove the truck, and Darcy and I drove my van with Grammy in the backseat, along for the adventure.


Grammy's college friend lives in that same area, and since they hadn't seen one another in while, she joined us so she could spend some time with her friend. Because Darcy had to pick up a prescription, we were late getting on the road. Tom insisted we avoid the toll roads so by the time the van head out, approximately twenty minutes or more after the other two, we hit every single light. On the two-lane road. Then we got behind big trucks. On the two-lane road. Then our windshield was attacked by lovebugs, and when I say that, I mean they were smacking into the glass at a rate of three per second until Darcy could barely see out to drive.

We had to pull over at a gas station just to wash the windshield. This was also during the week of the "big gas shortage" due to the pipeline hack, which shouldn't have affected our area, but, of course, people panicked. Like they did with the toilet paper. So, when we finally found a gas station, not only were we thrilled to be cleaning our windshield, we were thrilled to find gas!

Every single car in line was really there for the windshield cleaner and scraper, but hey, since there was gas, well everyone filled up too.

I took the wheel then, told Darcy we were done with the no-toll roads, got on to the interstate, and we ended up arriving at our destination just as the men were getting out of their cars. Oh, and the bug situation? They weren't immune either.


Oleg found a roommate and is sharing a two-bedroom townhouse. We met the guy who was quite chill about all of us traipsing in and out of his house, bumping furniture into his walls, and chatting a mile a minute as we did so. 



The men returned the truck while Darcy and I set up Oleg's bedroom with Grammy's advice from her perch on the bed. Then we thanked the roommate and met the men for dinner. Where Grammy discovered she'd left her wallet back home. 

That was several minutes of frantically emptying her purse and digging through the van, but a call to her SIL who went to her house turned up the wallet. It's now our new family joke.

Grammy: "This is my treat!"

Us: "Uh-huh, left your wallet at home again, didn't you?"

We spent several days at the resort further south from Oleg's. Grammy visited with her friend. Darcy and Oleg had a date night to finally celebrate his new job and their graduation. I got to swim laps in a pool larger than my backyard one, and Tom...well, he did a lot of driving, getting people to and fro. 

Saying goodbye to Oleg on Sunday was quite sad. There were a lot of tears. But, as we reminded him, we're only a three hour, bugs in our windshield, drive away!


And then, I made him send me a selfie of his first day of work on Monday!



Yay to new beginnings!

Tuesday, May 11, 2021

Grad pics 2021










CONGRATS!!! Class of 2021!




 

Monday, May 10, 2021

And how about another one?

 

Oleg only had his allotted two tickets, and they went to me and Darcy. Prior to Darcy's graduation, Tom had groused about being left out of attending. There was talk of sneaky inside, of smuggling tickets, and other various scenarios that caused me stress. Then we went to Darcy's.

Me: "Still eager to attempt to get in tonight for Oleg's graduation?"

Tom: "It's all yours."

But he did watch from home. Madison sent us a video of him following her around with his computer while the same announcer read off the graduating senior names. People, it was tedious!


Our view was from the other side of where we had been for Darcy's, so we had a view of the stage this time. His chair was at the back where we were seated, and like Darcy, we could see him, and he could see us. 

Oleg's name was almost the last of the bunch. He'd warned us that as soon as his name was called he was out of there. And, three hours later, we were. 



And back home we went for more cake and celebrating! Oleg's headed this week for his new job on the other coast working in his field as a computer guru coder, and we couldn't be more proud of him. While he fell short by a smidgen of Darcy's 4.0 GPA, he too worked hard while working several jobs, and let's not forget, in another country!

Congrats, Oleg! We are so proud of you and can't wait to watch you grow!



Sunday, May 02, 2021

College graduation 2021- Darcy

 


It wasn't exactly the graduation we might have pictured when she first started college, but at least there was a celebration and recognition. Even if all she did was stand when her name was called. 

But we were there, and we could see her and she could see us. And it was indoors and not in the hot sun, and we only had to attend one ceremony instead of several. Although, sitting for three-plus hours, listening to the same voice call 1928374 names might have been just as bad. But we only complained...well, tons.

Happy Graduation to my baby!

Due to COVID, graduation was held at the same venue where my girls graduated high school, that of the Tampa Bay Rays stadium, and only two people were allowed per student. One of Darcy's friends gave her two tickets so Maddy and Oleg were able to attend too, and since the friend's tickets were way better than Darcy's, those are the seats where Tom and I sat. 



Darcy was seated in the front with the other King O'Neal Scholar Award winners. This is an award given to those graduating students who complete their undergraduate coursework with a 4.0 GPA. They received special recognition, a certificate, and a medallion of the University seal.


She worked extremely hard for this award while working two jobs, one of them as a supervisor, and volunteering with various organizations. The things this kid accomplished in her four years of college astonished me. Truly. 


She graduated from the College of Behavioral and Community Sciences with a Bachelor of Arts in Communication Sciences and Disorders. As an ASL interpreter, she has already accepted jobs with two agencies and will spend a week working at a camp for the deaf. She is waiting to hear how she did on her certification exam, and depending on that score, will be able to apply with the school systems, etc. 


We celebrated with breakfast (and mimosas) afterward in an actual restaurant, and then went home for celebratory cake before we did it all over again that evening with Oleg.



This kid is ready to fly! We couldn't be more proud of the woman she has become, and we wait eagerly to see what is next. Congrats Darcy! We love you, and we are SO proud of everything you've done!





Saturday, May 01, 2021

2021 Resolution check - four months

Every two months, I check in to see how I'm doing on my New Year's resolutions. I give myself a score between 1-10 with the hopes that I'm perfect by the end of the year. 


Let's check-in (4 months):


  •  To be like 2020 Rebel Wilson and make this year a focus on health - The first two months I added exercise. I now walk three miles a day, five days a week. These last two months I added a daily smoothie/protein shake to my diet. I'm not down in pounds but I feel better and have lost some inches.  Score: 6


  • To eat breakfast before I drink my morning coffee - Yes! Now, if I have it before I get shaky and sick. Score: 10


  • To think of three positive, happy, uplifting things for every negative thought that runs into my head - Yes! Still kicking this one! Score: 10


  • To edit book one and complete book two in all phases and attempt to publish. - I am doing well on book two with the help of my RWA mentor. We have edited Chapters 1-10 twice. I recently finished my third edit on those. We've edited chapters 11-14, and I've completed the second edit there. I am currently finishing the edits on the rest of the book and shall send to her. I'm feeling pretty darn good. Score: 8


  • To continue down the path of completing past resolutions - Oops. I've forgotten all about this one. I did absolutely nothing on it. Darn it. (Watch my cursing was one, does that count? See, what I did there? No?) Score: 0


  • To learn Russian - Yes! I have a streak of 100 days! Okay, I've missed maybe four out of the 100 but I earned enough points for freezes so my streak is alive! Score: 10


Total Score44 out of 50 - Maybe I've learned how to master making resolutions? Or I'm just this good this year? Who cares? I'm doing well!!