Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Sunday, March 31, 2024

Easter 2024

Oleg's family invited us for Easter. We had a great time with food, games, and an Easter egg hunt. Grammy came with us, but Oleg and Darcy were working. It was relaxing not to host or collaborate with the Easter Bunny.





The egg hunt was indoors and outside, and naturally, like every year, we didn't find all the eggs. That's become a tradition. 



Happy Easter to all who celebrate!


Saturday, November 04, 2023

Hello November

October was a heavy month of hurt and realization, and one that I fought for several weeks. 


My brother and SIL arrived at the end of the month. Rusty played in a golf tournament locally. Susan relaxed and supported him from beneath an umbrella on the beach. We met for dinner the first night. The last time I saw him was in July 2022. He looked good, and I'm not just saying that because he bought me dinner.


They stayed at our Wyndham on Clearwater Beach, and I joined Susan on the beach for a day before we grabbed a bite poolside. 


The next night, I took her to dinner at a restaurant neither of us had tried. I didn't see my brother again until their last night. They were supposed to stay with us on that day, but Wyndham gave them another night, so they spent the day doing tourist things and we saw them for dinner.

They like to eat.



For me, the visit kicked into hearing what I'd tried so hard to reject. Not easy, but I've had a week and a half to internalize it all. I'm blessed, life is good, and by golly, I have a core group that loves me unconditionally. Here's to letting go of wants that won't be fulfilled.

Not a bad thing to come to peace with before my birthday.

Monday, October 30, 2023

Scenes from an engagement party



















Our family is thrilled! We consider Oleg and his family as ours, but now it will be official! We gave speeches, but all we wish for is a happy, healthy life for both of them with lots of laughter and love! 

Congrats, you two! We love you SO much!

 

Saturday, October 28, 2023

My baby said yes!

Oleg told us a couple of weeks ago the date he was asking for Darcy's hand in marriage. It coincided with my brother in town, so Oleg's mother and I planned a celebration for the day after the big engagement.

Darcy has known about the ring. She worked with a jeweler to design it but had yet to see the finished product, and she hadn't a clue when he would present it.

She made a lot of comments.

Darcy: "He's had it since April. What's he waiting for? It's October!"

Darcy: "Well, I don't have a ring on my finger..."

Oleg got their friends to help him, and despite Darcy unintentionally sabotaging things, they pulled it off. 

Example: Darcy said she had to have her nails done before any proposal was allowed to happen. Several days before the date, Darcy's friend took her to have a mani/pedi. This is something the two do often, so Darcy wasn't suspicious. But she did decide not to have a manicure since she had some issues with one of her fingers. The friend had to cajole her into it, telling Darcy it was her treat. 

Example: The proposal was happening while they played putt-putt. That day, after a night spent with their friends, Darcy tried to talk them out of going. She was too tired.

Example: Oleg worked it out with the photographer that he and his fiance would play behind their group, but when everyone was in line, Darcy forgot her sunglasses and wanted to get out of line to get them.

Example: The ring was in the hole, but Darcy spotted it sticking out. Irritated because the course used flags and her ball kept bouncing off that, she exclaimed loudly that something was blocking the hole. 

Still, it happened. Oleg got the box out of the hole. Darcy asked what it was. He dropped to his knee, and the rest is history. She said yes!




















They facetimed us to tell us the story.

Me: "Are you going out to celebrate now?"

Darcy: "No, I've got a game to win! Then we can go celebrate."

That's my girl!